My guilty pleasure - being treated like a lady.

[Juliett]

Yes, he knows I'm Trans. Says he doesn't care.

I've known many guys who said they didn't care. I have yet to meet one who was telling the truth.

[Ashey]

I've known many guys who said they didn't care. I have yet to meet one who was telling the truth.

Sounds like you need to meet more and different guys. There are many out there that legitimately don't care. Not everyone has an opinion on us one way or another and they remain open-minded as a result. And I think in a lot of cases attraction takes precedence over genitalia or orientation anyway.

[iKate]

Yeeeah there is definitely a difference between getting hit on online and interacting with guys in person and you have to keep that difference in mind, or you're gonna get all bummed out, lol. I get tons of attention online but in real life guys are more reserved (which should be seen as a good thing!) and they'll be less likely to approach me. But, if I happen to get into a conversation or something, if they find an in, then their interest is a lot more noticeable. Otherwise it's just the sideways stares as you walk by or that feeling like you have a target on your chest and butt. xD

What I was saying is that the opposite happens. I get tons of attention IRL but online hardly anything.

[iKate]

I've known many guys who said they didn't care. I have yet to meet one who was telling the truth.

True dat. I'm not really ready for dating now anyway.

[Ashey]

What I was saying is that the opposite happens. I get tons of attention IRL but online hardly anything.

That's interesting. I suppose the differences could just be how we interact with people. I'm probably a lot more social online. In person I don't have any problems talking to people but I'm a bit more reserved and wary, especially around men.

[iKate]

That's interesting. I suppose the differences could just be how we interact with people. I'm probably a lot more social online. In person I don't have any problems talking to people but I'm a bit more reserved and wary, especially around men.

I'm very outgoing plus I pretty much hang with any crowd.

[Oliviah]

I love being flirted with.  I get tons of gross attention online.  Dick picks galore.  I have had drink bought for me before but I didn't go talk to the guy.  Recently a guy approached me.  That was really fun. 

[Debra]

But the feeling of being flirted with, and treated like a lady is absolutely intoxicating. My heart flutters when I think of the possibilities. At the same time I feel sad because I missed out on all of this when I was younger. I never had a good time dating and flirting as a guy. But as a woman? It is extremely natural to me.

Anyone else feel the same?

Completely. It can be a good thing and yet a scary thing too. Esp in the city, downtown, random guys making comments/flirting....even after 6 years I am still uncomfortable about it in the moment and then later on I kinda laugh about it or feel good that it happened.

[iKate]

I love being flirted with.  I get tons of gross attention online.  Dick picks galore.  I have had drink bought for me before but I didn't go talk to the guy.  Recently a guy approached me.  That was really fun.

I don't get any dick pics at all. I get friend requests and chats, usually from guys and they are shockingly quite polite.

I do have my privacy settings turned up a bit though.

[Anna33]

I never got a 'd pic' in my inbox yet. I think I am going to vomit if ever do. Fortunately I try not to expose myself to mediums where that could happen. But this is because I am married and not looking, probably.

Most of people actually adress me super politely and with a lot of respect.

[April_TO]

I've never experienced being approached by any random guy or getting friend request on Facebook. I probably look unapproachable or just couldn't be bothered aura. Not that I would like to get some pics but it is interesting how we occur to people.

I admire the ladies here that are being approached and being asked out - that must be an awesome experience.

Stay beautiful!

April

[Nattiedoll]

When I get approached online it's usually a dating app. I've never gotten a Facebook request but I have gotten a few guys on Instagram. Facebook isn't really the place to get hit on because most of the guys are reserved on there. I might get approached a lot because of the apps I sign up for. It's not any crazy app lol just normal dating ones. I learned guys always choose a time and place to approach a girl. I've gotten dick pics and nudes but I noticed some of them the guy hides his face. I don't get why they think it's ok to send a penis picture and expect you to have sex when you haven't even seen their face. I have tinder that's where I get the most attention because guys get to let their man whore side out. They don't care that I'm trans but when I tell them most of them just want sex, not sure if they do this because I'm trans or if they would have asked anyways. Most of the guys don't treat you like a "lady" on there tho lol.

[iKate]

Oh, I don't do dating apps. I am not really dating anyway.

I went to lunch with him. He's kinda cool to hang with. Might even be boyfriend material. He's head over heels. But as they say, "it's complicated."