Quote from: mickey.megan on December 03, 2015, 01:01:59 PM
hmmmm I may just give that a go...but I' sure my wife with freak out saying its because I really want to transition. (which i secretly do)
Or simply point out that your freaking out every day HAVING to shave just another constant GD irritant that just makes you dream and want to "go all the way". To cut and run because you reached your breaking point. So wouldn't letting the safety valve on the boiler vent off the excess pressure be better then an explosion?
Like you, in a perfect world I would fully transition, still have my wife, still have my fun job, still have the respect of all my coworkers, etc.. There would be no reason not to transition. No impediments. No fears. No worries. Zero risk balanced against a potential windfall of being and feeling 100% authentic.
It is not a perfect world either for my wife after having the T-Bomb dropped on her out of a clear blue sky. Yet she is benefiting from the changes, the personal growth, that I have been going through. I am a far better, happier, alive person now. Yes, some things she has difficulty dealing with. We both have to deal with an unknown future Will what I need to do today to maintain balance be good enough tomorrow?
No one can answer that question.
