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Started by jojo702, June 08, 2015, 11:07:56 PM

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jojo702

Hello everyone, it's been a while since i last logged on here and so much have been going on in my life. I'm happy and have been seeing doctors and whatnot about checkups.

I wanted to talk to everyone who have had their srs in the past year and find out if we all could assist each other in comparing the types of issues or experiences we've encountered with our new vagina and lifestyle.

As you all know, I'm still dilating but every other day now and not 3 times a day and im still able to keep my depth at 6 inches. My obgyn next week will prescribe me a vaginal estrogen cream to give my vagina a better touch.

The thing I wanted to also talk about is Anxiety and Panic Attacks. Have you been getting these more frequently after surgery? I haven't had any case of anxiety or panic attacks ever since after my surgery and I was prescribed lorazepam pills to take when needed in the event of a panic attack.

I used to not like taking pills but now i guess i have to. I now take oral estrodial pills everyday to prevent menopausal symptoms and to prevent dvt or stroke overdose. I'm wondering if any of you have anxiety or panic attacks where you feel like you're dying and your hearts beating fast, palpitations, sweaty, dizziness, cant breath.....it's not a wonderful feeling but it's something I'm coping with at the moment which I've never had this ever before surgery.

*mod edit- no dosages please
15 years on HRT and going, started at age 16.

SRS+BA done in Bangkok, Thailand by the hands of Dr Chettawut Tulayaphanich and his team on November 1, 2014.
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SorchaC

Glad to hear everything is going well for you :)

Can't say I've had any panic attacks but then being only 10 weeks post op I'm still a baby and there is time. Overall my recovery has been pretty text book. I've even been lucky enough to not bleed even once but then I'm not very sensitive down there yet just odd twinges of feeling. I can feel everything when I dilate I'm referring to the areas that are expected to be sensitive and that others who had their ops around my time have reported feeling things from.

Hopefully not many have panic attacks and everyone posts how wonderful they have found recovery.

Hugs

Sorcha  ;D
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HRT : December 2007,
GRC, (Gender Changed on Birth Certificate) December 2009,  :eusa_clap:
SRS Dr Chettawut March 2015, ;D ;D
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Jennygirl

Quote from: jojo702 on June 08, 2015, 11:07:56 PM
I'm wondering if any of you have anxiety or panic attacks where you feel like you're dying and your hearts beating fast, palpitations, sweaty, dizziness, cant breath.....it's not a wonderful feeling but it's something I'm coping with at the moment which I've never had this ever before surgery.

Yes, 150% of that.

Anxiety nearly crippled me for a good year of my life, it's a miracle I didn't lose my job. I was having 4 panic attacks per day when it was at it's worst.

What you are describing is an anxiety attack. It stems from the feeling that one has no control over their fate, which leads to a sense of feeling trapped in the body. For me this meant constantly wanting to be hooked up to EKG machines and wondering if my S.O. should be driving me to the ER!

I as well was prescribed Lorazepam, and it does help a lot. Generally though it's just a band-aid, and it can become addictive. If you notice your anxiety is worsening, it might be a good time to talk to a professional about it. It's not an easy thing to overcome, but I assure you as living proof that it can be done.

What helped me the most was doing things that I knew made my body happy. Diet, exercise, and a few vitamin supplements. I had less worry about my body messing up on me and it made the anxiety go away. I also read a few books, which assured me I had nothing to be afraid of. If you don't start to take control, it can indeed get a bit out of hand. The book that I remember the most was called "Living with Fear" by Isaac Marks. It really goes into great detail about triggers and getting to know yourself better. It helped talk me back down to ground level, maybe it can help you too!

Anyway just mainly wanted to say that YES, there are tons of us who have anxiety. You truly are not alone. I am sure you will find no shortage of support, anxiety plagues millions of people. You CAN beat it, but you will have to reach a greater understanding of yourself before that. By the way, I haven't had a panic attack in 8 years :) Going strong!
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jojo702

Quote from: SorchaC on June 09, 2015, 12:30:14 AM

Can't say I've had any panic attacks but then being only 10 weeks post op I'm still a baby and there is time. Overall my recovery has been pretty text book. I've even been lucky enough to not bleed even once but then I'm not very sensitive down there yet just odd twinges of feeling. I can feel everything when I dilate I'm referring to the areas that are expected to be sensitive and that others who had their ops around my time have reported feeling things from.


Hope for a great recovery Sorcha, I too have gone the same when it was only 10 weeks but everything will heal and the sensation will come when it's time. It will be sensitive for now but a few months from now, all that pain will decrease and you won't have a tough time dilating and all that stuff lol. Hope a speedy recovery and hope you're the lucky few who won't get anxiety attacks.
15 years on HRT and going, started at age 16.

SRS+BA done in Bangkok, Thailand by the hands of Dr Chettawut Tulayaphanich and his team on November 1, 2014.
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jojo702

Quote from: Jennygirl on June 09, 2015, 03:31:33 AM
Yes, 150% of that.

Anxiety nearly crippled me for a good year of my life, it's a miracle I didn't lose my job. I was having 4 panic attacks per day when it was at it's worst.

What you are describing is an anxiety attack. It stems from the feeling that one has no control over their fate, which leads to a sense of feeling trapped in the body. For me this meant constantly wanting to be hooked up to EKG machines and wondering if my S.O. should be driving me to the ER!

I as well was prescribed Lorazepam, and it does help a lot. Generally though it's just a band-aid, and it can become addictive. If you notice your anxiety is worsening, it might be a good time to talk to a professional about it. It's not an easy thing to overcome, but I assure you as living proof that it can be done.

What helped me the most was doing things that I knew made my body happy. Diet, exercise, and a few vitamin supplements. I had less worry about my body messing up on me and it made the anxiety go away. I also read a few books, which assured me I had nothing to be afraid of. If you don't start to take control, it can indeed get a bit out of hand. The book that I remember the most was called "Living with Fear" by Isaac Marks. It really goes into great detail about triggers and getting to know yourself better. It helped talk me back down to ground level, maybe it can help you too!

Anyway just mainly wanted to say that YES, there are tons of us who have anxiety. You truly are not alone. I am sure you will find no shortage of support, anxiety plagues millions of people. You CAN beat it, but you will have to reach a greater understanding of yourself before that. By the way, I haven't had a panic attack in 8 years :) Going strong!

I envy your courage and strength, Jenny!. I just started getting these attacks just last month and omg all these EKG's hooked up. I felt like i was having a heart attack and thought i was gonna faint or black out somewhere and end up in a hospital or dead.

I take lorazepam when i'm starting to feel that feeling of an attack but I feel like the pills might kill me since i've never taken pills before like i do now. I definitely need to read that book, thank you so much for the recommendation. As for the vitamins, do you take multivitamins daily and exercise? And did you also change your diet around?

Anxiety is not fun and i do not want to keep going to the ER only to find out that I had an anxiety attack and not a serious issue like a heart attack. I thought maybe it was the hormones I was taking, or vitamins, or foods that I was eating that made me feel like I was gonna die then i realized that it was anxiety.

I despise pills but if it's something that will help me get through this then i'll take it but not longterm.
15 years on HRT and going, started at age 16.

SRS+BA done in Bangkok, Thailand by the hands of Dr Chettawut Tulayaphanich and his team on November 1, 2014.
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suzifrommd

Experienced depression for a few months after the 4-month mark, but none of the anxiety you're talking about. I'm still dilating 1/day. Don't seem to be able to get to O or to experience intense arousal, though all the sensation seems to be there. Too much maybe. I have a couple of spots that are really tender. I saw a doctor and she said that everything is healing OK, so it's probably just the way my nerves are arranged.
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Laura_7

#6
You might think about implants... they might help with more steady levels... which might affect mood...

otherwise you might think about spreading the dose throughout the day for a bit more steady levels, for example four small doses of estrogen instead of one or two big ones daily...

you might think about adding bioidentical progesterone... it might help balance some effects of estrogen...

and you might think about a low dose of testosterone, it might help with drive and orgasm capacity...

all three are available in topical form, or as implants...
and they are often used for menopausal women for example...
talk it all through with your doctor...


there are meditation, breathing and relaxation techniques and courses, you might ask a therapist whiche ones would be best for you...


concerning vitamins, a few natural sources or a few smoothies additionally to multivitamins might be a good idea... possibly organic... maybe there are some fruit you have a craving for... just don't overdo it...and a bit of variety should be good...


*hugs*

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Jennygirl

jojo- Definitely follow the directions from your doctor first and foremost, take the pills as prescribed. The lorazepam will not hurt you!

First, I quit drinking caffeine altogether which helped immensely. Then I cut back on sugar. I found that for myself, symptoms of hypoglycemia were a huge anxiety trigger. For example, one time I ate a huge piece of chocolate cake. Then when I got home, I had a heart palpitation that skyrocketed me into full blown panic because I thought I would have a heart attack. Caffeine could also have the same effect as a huge meal, for me.

The best thing to remember is that people do not die from panic attacks. There is nothing wrong with your body, so don't let it try to fool you! You will get past this.

For vitamins, a Magnesium Citrate at night and Calcium Citrate in the morning is a good way to calm your nerves as well as aid in healing across your entire body. Mag is a really really good calming nutrient. Calcium works side by side, your body won't process the mag without the calcium. Also, you might not want to take them at the same time because of their canceling effect. I have read that it's best to take magnesium at night (it will actually help you sleep, too) and calcium in the morning for best results. A nutritionist may have better recommendations, that's just what I found online.

About a year ago, I had a mini-bout with anxiety following FFS. I ended up supplementing with mag & cal which really did the trick. Of course, I made sure with my doctor that it was okay for me to take it! Whether it was placebo or not, I felt like I was doing something good for my body which was all I needed. Sometimes taking a few steps in a good direction are all that your mind needs to clear out the anxiety to make room for calmness. You end up convincing yourself that you're okay... and that's all that needs to happen.

How often do you have the attacks? Hope you can get them under control soon. I know it is no fun!
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jojo702

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Thank you all so much.  I am scheduled to see an OBGYN, a Cardiologist, and a Psychologist this month so I'm hoping to bring remember to bring up the Magnesium Citrate and Calcium Citrate and see if they would recommend me to take those.

*dosage information removed*

@Suzi, those sensitive nerves will all work themselves out and orgasm will be successful depending where your spot is most aroused at. I am able to orgasm when I rub myself above the clitoris and it always does the trick for me and of course with porn lol.
15 years on HRT and going, started at age 16.

SRS+BA done in Bangkok, Thailand by the hands of Dr Chettawut Tulayaphanich and his team on November 1, 2014.
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Jennygirl

Hi Jojo

Please do not post dosage information here, we have a site policy to keep that info off the site. We don't want people using the info to self medicate.

Also I just remembered.. It's not Magnesium Citrate, it is Chelated Magnesium that I meant to recommend. Good on you for asking your doc about it first :)

Hope you feel better asap!
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SorchaC

Quote from: jojo702 on June 09, 2015, 04:58:00 PM

Hope for a great recovery Sorcha, I too have gone the same when it was only 10 weeks but everything will heal and the sensation will come when it's time. It will be sensitive for now but a few months from now, all that pain will decrease and you won't have a tough time dilating and all that stuff lol. Hope a speedy recovery and hope you're the lucky few who won't get anxiety attacks.


Thanks for the reply Jojo :) My family doctor saw me a week after I returned from Bangkok and she was impressed by the results and told me to keep doing whatever I was as it all looked beautiful. She also said it can take up to 6 months for all the nerves to reattach themselves. I am not rushing any form of sexual activity not even on my own but I'd like to have some feelings just in case I have an urge to test it out :)

I'll keep a very close eye on my moods and feeling so if I start to feel down I stop it as soon as I notice. I warned my partner to watch out for me as well in view of what you've said.

Hugs

Sorcha  ;D
Full Time : July 2007,  ;D ;D
HRT : December 2007,
GRC, (Gender Changed on Birth Certificate) December 2009,  :eusa_clap:
SRS Dr Chettawut March 2015, ;D ;D
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Qcammy

Im 5 weeks post op and getting few panic attacks per week. All i did was breathe in deeply through your nose, and let it out through your mouth. *repeat and it will go away in less than 5 minutes. Just think of good things while inhaling and exhaling. Its scary, i know how sweaty u can get when it starts.


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Butterflylover3

I am three months post op and havent yet experienced any panic attacks, but i did have small amount of anxiety. i know im very indecisive and i have tried to go back to work only to tell myself i wasnt ready. i wasnt ready emotionally and physically to work. :(
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