A letter to try and convince my mother to meet me

[immortal gypsy]

Since I came out to my mother (about April last year), she has preety much had no contact with me unless she needs something from me . Now normally except for some times of the year, this was not a major problem. Now with my epilepsy hitting me in a very bad way. I need the kind of advice and shoulder a daughter needs from her mother. So I am in the process of writting a text to her, (possibly an email also). Please tell me what you think.

Hi mum,
Been having multiple seizures latley. Concerend about them and how they may be effecting my relationship, (Supergirl has been a saint but.....). Would like to talk to you about it in person. When are you free?

Fell free to make any sugestions for editing please
Thank you

[Mariah]

Gypsy, I would probably make it longer so your mom gets that no matter how she feels about your transition that you need her more so now than ever. I don't think your letter convey's that strongly enough to your mother. Hugs
Mariah

[stephaniec]

I don't know how you feel about your mother and how far your willing to go with this , but you can always say " I need You "

[immortal gypsy]

Advice on board version 2

Mum I need you, I know I hurt your feelings when I told you was going to transition. You where upset and worried about me. Work, home, social and financial. These have all improved since I transitioned, these where the things you where scared of. Please don't worry about them, in these aspects of my daily life I'm fine. I Have tried to give you time and space but now I really do need you.
I'm having a situation that only a child can bring to their parent. My epilepsy has come back with a major vengance I seem to be having seizures every few weeks. went on a holiday with 'supergirl' and fear that I ruined it by spending half the time post-ctal, then just plain sleepy. I know she says she loves me, but sometimes I fear I'm placing too much preasure and strain on our relationship. Can we please, please meet up and talk I need to see you. Can you let me know when your free???

[stephaniec]

sounds honest and good.