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Started by Megan0000, October 20, 2018, 09:44:07 PM

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Megan0000

In a department store today and got the nerve up to buy some makeup. I bought foundation, eye shadow,  mascara, and some nice brushes. Standing at the cosmetic counter my purchases are on the counter, I'm not in dress the clerk come back from helping a older white lady. The lady starts putting her stuff on the counter and cuts in front of me. The clerk asks " oh are you two together?" I say no and lady doesn't acknowledge either of us. I stand down not feeling like b....mode. This lady asks me "who are you shopping for?" I wish I would have been honest but I said for my wife. This was the first time in my life I felt offended buying something. Am I over reacting?
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GordonG

Yes. Some people are just rude and don't care. I don't believe it was intentional or personal.  If it was someone else there they would have probably done the same thing.
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HappyMoni

Quote from: Megan0000 on October 20, 2018, 09:44:07 PM
In a department store today and got the nerve up to buy some makeup. I bought foundation, eye shadow,  mascara, and some nice brushes. Standing at the cosmetic counter my purchases are on the counter, I'm not in dress the clerk come back from helping a older white lady. The lady starts putting her stuff on the counter and cuts in front of me. The clerk asks " oh are you two together?" I say no and lady doesn't acknowledge either of us. I stand down not feeling like b....mode. This lady asks me "who are you shopping for?" I wish I would have been honest but I said for my wife. This was the first time in my life I felt offended buying something. Am I over reacting?
You could have said, "I'm shopping for you dear, you seem privileged in every other way so why not?" Not over reacting!
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
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Megan0000

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Jin

I do not have much tolerance for rudeness.
Also, I have discovered that once you declare that you are shopping for yourself, you cease being a perv and become a customer.
I yam what I yam, and that's all what I yam.
-- Popeye

A wise person can learn more from fools than a fool can learn from a wise person.
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