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Archlord:
Oops, I guess I came too late to see your male fail. I recall mine with a curious fondness for all the travails it brought and the survival I achieved.
My best for you that your employer is so agreeable. Of course it means much work must still be done regarding others. As long as this question must be asked, then we know there is a long way to go.
I retained a few personal items that held sentimental meaning, such as gifts or representations of my life. The rest went to Goodwill and other charities.
My decisions to proceed with my form of GCS surgeries was so easy, yet I had to ponder long and hard for many years about something so simple as getting my ears pierced. Once done (1988?), I began enjoying different items. I make my own if I can't find what I want.
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