Wow, great article Stephanie.
I agree 100%
We need to make our case that allowing trans people to use the correct bathroom is good for everyone. Somehow HRC, and other groups are reluctant to make it. It's complicated. People need to understand that it can't depend on how well we "pass", nor how far along we are in our transition. People need to understand that we simply can't use the wrong bathroom. It's dangerous. People need to understand who we are and why we do what we do. If people don't understand all that, we WILL lose. That's a certainty.
Not surprised HRC doesn't understand that. They're primarily a LGB organization, only recently embracing the T and now playing catch-up.