So hi! Some people may remember me from a while back. I was here for a while and then life swept me away into other areas. Anyways, I'm here again and hopefully I'll be able to stick around for a bit.
As the title line suggests, this conversation is going to be more adult oriented. I'm sure there will be some genital talk going on as well as dysphoria mentions. Take care of yourself peeps! <3
At any rate, something I really struggle with in terms of identity is being a woman who prefers to be on 'top' or the penetrating partner. I spent a large part of my life growing up and entering adulthood in the gay scene as a top. For whatever reason, bottoming hardly ever works out for me. Like... ever. As I made my journey to womanhood, I've felt my own self call into question my identity because I don't act sexually as a woman 'should'. Of course, I immediately recognize that this is a patriarchal mode of thought and know that I need to seek out ways of removing this from my system. However, that doesn't really stop those thoughts from existing none the less.
Any of you girls have resources or methods you'd like to share with a sister in struggle?
