Over the last few months, and really the last few years, I've been trying to cope with my gender. I was born male and ever since I was little have been obsessed with cross dressing. The problem is i'm not sure if i'm transgender or not. I do love feminine things like dresses, make up, ect., but I also have a nagging feeling towards my male self. Right now I'm in high school and want to be cheer leader. That said, I've been a martial artist for several years and have trained with a male mindset. The best way I can describe my scenario is that I have a dial. Some days that dial is cranked all the way pink, other days all the way blue. Sometimes it's in between, and so forth. I guess really what i'm looking for is closure. I need to know what I can do to make myself happier and healthier. Already I've told some friends i'm a cross dresser, but I would really like some guidance. Thank you so much for reading this, and thank the creator of this site even more for having a place for trans people to ask these questions.