ShadowCharms : I went to Brassard. I was sensate from the moment I woke up and orgasmic in my sleep at 3 weeks post-op, so I exceeded my best hopes in terms of sensation.

Functionally, I have adequate depth, can accommodate the largest dilator, and do self-lubricate. In terms of aesthetics, I really lucked out - I've had a gynecologist and some ER doctors who thought I was cis. I'm generally very pleased with the results.
He definitely does do the "tidier" look, but it was not too extreme for me; I've seen enough cis vulvas that looked similar to be comfortable with it. Heck, these days, some cis women with larger inner labia are paying plastic surgeons to *get* that look... (I do like that he used some leftover urethra to give me pink, moist mucosal tissue on the inside of the inner labia and clitoral hood, which looks very natural.)
The other thing is, within the general range of cis norms, once you're done and healed up it's yours, you know? I figure I had a little more input than the average cis woman, but not by much, and just like she has to learn to live with what nature gave her, I see what I ended up with as unique and all mine. I have a couple of quirks I don't like, but so does my wife.