I need help finding a functional STP/packer.
After trying a simple mr.limpy type packer with homemade nipple style tubing in it and peeing all over myself for several months, I invested in a freetom... And peed all over myself for several months. I got the 4 in 1 sleek model. I had the STP down after about 3 months, but only in shorts with a very long fly so that I could essentially just take a wide stance and shove everything up against my body. The cup style is great for my heavy flow (I drink a lot of water), but the balls are so thin and floppy that a touch from my thighs collapses the whole thing even though I am a small person. The weather switched to necessitate jeans, and the packing with it is so horrible that I've switched back to a homemade packer I made several years ago. I live on a university campus and do a lot of outdoor activity, so it's an awful inconvenience to be constantly worried about sitting.
I have looked into almost everything on the market, and it seems like everything is either bulky in terms of packing, a functional STP but not a packer, or $200+ which I am hesitant to spend after the disappointment with my freetom. Help?