My wife. I reminded her of an upcoming therapy session, and asked if she'd like to schedule some joint sessions. "No, I can't deal with this." Um. Why is that? "It's making me very anxious." Well, that's what therapy would help with. We're having trouble communicating, and that's not good. "No, I can't have anything to do with this." OK, would you consider joint therapy in the future? "No, it would just make me anxious."
This isn't good. I'm afraid this marriage will be another statistic in the Fail column soon.