I hope this was the correct place to post this.
I'm 2 1/2 months on T, and have top surgery scheduled for Feb. 23rd. I'm trying to get my name changed as soon as possible, but I have no idea how to go about it. I've Googled a few many times, and I can't find anything on the CURRENT process for trans people in MD (I know laws have been changing). At what point am I allowed to do this? Do I have to wait until after top surgery to even fill out the paperwork? Where do I go/how do I change my gender? Is that just done at the MVA or Social Security Admin or???
What do I change first? How long after I change my legal name do I have to wait before I can get my new ID from the MVA? Do I need my new license in order to change my name at the bank, work, etc? I have absolutely not even a single tiny idea as to how to go about ANY of this, and I feel so overwhelmed thinking about every single thing I'm going to need to change (credit cards, health insurance, car loan, car title...) I don't know where to start and have almost no free time to even look into these things (working constantly to be able to afford this expensive top surgery that I NEED asap).
I feel like I'm drowning. Please, anyone who can throw me a raft, I would really appreciate it.