I had the luck of the draw too with no adam's apple, a small frame, small hands, small feet, naturally wavy/curly hair, and only slightly tall for a woman. I thought my voice was lower than it is, but it turns out my natural voice is fairly close to the female range too. It's not passable without effort, but pitch isn't an issue. My T was also excessively low. Around the time I turned 40, prior to HRT, I started getting gendered female while in male mode. So yeah I've had it pretty easy as far as presentation goes. 100% of my friends were accepting too.
But I didn't have it quite so easy on the family side. Out of 150 family members, 7 still talk to me. Two of those are aunts, one is a parent, the rest are cousins. I lost the other parents, siblings, and nieces/nephews. I try to stick with the attitude that if they don't like me for me, it's not worth the effort, but it still brings me to tears about once a week knowing that all these people that have known me for 40 years were capable of walking away that easily.
