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Being with another woman

Started by hibiki, April 04, 2016, 11:41:41 AM

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hibiki

Hello All,

Let me introduce myself, I am Jim, 25.

I have always identified myself as a woman , and I like other women. However, I do not feel a need to dress or look like a woman, as I would express my gender outward as more gender neutral. Along with the fact that I am genetically a male creates no doubt in others. I have also thought that if I were to transition, it would not be a huge change to how i express myself, but it would definitely make me more comfortable with my body. I have dated other women, who don't exactly know how i identify myself. They were successful relationships, which work, just not satisfying. Currently, I am exploring a relationship with a closet lesbian, and we are both uncertain how this will work as opening up to her makes me feel vulnerable and threaten. I am also afraid of where this will lead to if i go down this path of exploring our identity further with her.

Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
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Laura_7

If you identify as woman its likely you prefer emotional closeness ... talking to each other ... and maybe cuddling ...
I'd say try to meet each other as human being, regardless of gender.
Have some fun together, do a few things together, laugh together ... humour is important ...
see if you can click with each other, and take it from there. Maybe you can share a few hobbies, or a few pastimes.

Well concerning getting intimate ... not all people have penetrative sex, it can be very pleasurable to rub on each other ... lesbians call it tribbing ...
and lesbians usually please each other, with toys and without ... she might show a few things she likes ...

I'd say don't overthink and try if you fit together ...
and talk to each other, about emotions ... preferences ... etc ...


*hugs*
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hibiki

Quote from: Laura_7 on April 04, 2016, 03:03:57 PM
If you identify as woman its likely you prefer emotional closeness ... talking to each other ... and maybe cuddling ...
I'd say try to meet each other as human being, regardless of gender.
Have some fun together, do a few things together, laugh together ... humour is important ...
see if you can click with each other, and take it from there. Maybe you can share a few hobbies, or a few pastimes.

Well concerning getting intimate ... not all people have penetrative sex, it can be very pleasurable to rub on each other ... lesbians call it tribbing ...
and lesbians usually please each other, with toys and without ... she might show a few things she likes ...

I'd say don't overthink and try if you fit together ...
and talk to each other, about emotions ... preferences ... etc ...


*hugs*

Hello Laura, thank you for the advise and hug :) I greatly appreciate it and helped to alleviate some of my insecurities.
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