Feeling jealous of boyfriends ex....

[Angélique LaCava]

She's also transgender and they dated for 2 years n she did things with him that I refuse to do wit him n I'm just feeling jealous that they experienced things that me n him will never experience. Any of y'all have any advice on how to deal wit the jealousy I'm feeling?

[stephaniec]

The only thing I can say is to have confidence in your self on how you want to live your life and move on.

[Steph7]

With relationships it always comes back to 1 thing - there must be a reason why they are not together now.

Have faith in yourself and trust in your boyfriend. And enjoy the time you spend together. Something recent events have shown me is that nothing lasts for ever - so you need to make the most of the time you have together.

Best of luck
Steph

[Maybebaby56]

Yes, Angélique.  Get a new boyfriend. If he isn't reassuring you that he prefers what you have to offer to anything he had with his ex, then he doesn't deserve you.

With kindness,

Terri

[Jessie Ann]

I'm not sure why you would fell jealous about him doing things with her that you don't want to do??  I could understand having that feeling if they had done things you want to do but he was refusing to do them with you.  If anything you should feel relief that he's not trying to force you to do things you are uncomfortable with.  If he is trying to pressure you and preying on your insecurity about it and his prior relationship with his ex then he is being abusive and not supportive.  Hugs girl.

[stephaniec]

Is this the guy you told that your ex had an extra large.

[itsApril]

If this is the same guy you were talking about a few days ago, most folks here will tell you the same thing they already told you: cut him loose and move along with your life.  Somebody better will be along shortly!

[Violets]

Is this the guy you told that your ex had an extra large.

Baha! Clever.