(VENTING) I'm Feeling so insecure about my breast size....

[Angélique LaCava]

I hate how small they are and seeing transgenders with implants makes me feel so jealous and insecure. My boyfriend even says they look like 12 year old girl boobs.... He won't even touch them cause he said there's not enough there. I don't even take my bra off wen we fool around cause I'm so insecure. I wish I could get implants but I don't hav the money :/.

[teri]

*hugs*

accept yourself for the wonderful woman that you are.

[wanessa.delisola]

My boyfriend even says they look like 12 year old girl boobs.... He won't even touch them cause he said there's not enough there.

Wait, what?

I dont want to alarm you, but, I think the real problem here are not your breast  size... I think you need a real man, not a boy!

I'm not sure I should say that, but... for real, you need someone who makes you life better, not the opposite!

[stephaniec]

Is this the same one that said "your all right for now"

[Angélique LaCava]

Is this the same one that said "your all right for now"

yea....

[stephaniec]

I would of never of guessed

[Angélique LaCava]

I would of never of guessed

ik y'all said break up with him... It's just I don't want to be single again. He's my first bf.

[stephaniec]

well, it's your choice , I don't know him so I can't say , but I really think you sell yourself short.

[Angélique LaCava]

well, it's your choice , I don't know him so I can't say , but I really think you sell yourself short.

hes really nice Most of the time. He just says things that makes me insecure. I mean he has no issues with my face.... He says he thinks I'm beautiful in the face but my breasts could be bigger along with my hips.

[archlord]

He should understand that you are just starting HRT.  I worry a lot of my butt and my hips too but.. hormones need time to work sadly ...   I would love a kardashian butt but impossible for now if i dont get implants or wait long enough for hormones and even when it will be at its full potential from hrt, i will still want more lol.. i know myself.

My genital is more a problem to me then my body for being with a boyfriend to be honest.

[stephaniec]

like I said I don't know him , but your describing a tactic that abusers will use so they keep you around so they have a punching bag. Like I said I don't have the slightest idea what kind of person he is , but your description would appeal to me as a boy friend I personally couldn't deal with and believe me I more than would love to have a warm body next to mine. Naked of course.

[KathyLauren]

ik y'all said break up with him... It's just I don't want to be single again. He's my first bf.

First partners are just for practice.

[teri]

and I wonder what it would be like to have a bf.

[Emjay]

hes really nice Most of the time. He just says things that makes me insecure. I mean he has no issues with my face.... He says he thinks I'm beautiful in the face but my breasts could be bigger along with my hips.

Like Stephanie said:  I don't know him either.  But this part of your post throws up a HUGE red flag for me.  It really is up to you though, only you can decide if the good outweighs the bad.

As far as insecurity about your body I totally understand, I wish I was further along too.  It takes time......  relax, it'll happen!

Hugs

[Jessika]

Tell him even 12 yr old Girls don't wake up the next day suddenly with Model Boobs. Educate him on what Female Puberty is.

[Angélique LaCava]

He had only dated transgenders who hav had breast implants and years of hormones so maybe he's just not use to the fact that I  just started hrt 3 months ago.

[teri]

Sounds like HE needs to grow up because he cannot appreciate your inner and outer beauty.  He should be lucky to have a woman as beautiful as you.

[KarynMcD]

hes really nice Most of the time.

He's supposed to be nice ALL of the time.
Why is he no longer with the other girls?

Ask him how he is going to feel about you when you finally have GRS.

[KayXo]

I don't like your BF...he sounds like an A%% to me, sorry to say. You have to realize many guys would love to date you and be your partner for life. Go out, meet people...you will realize this.

As far as breast growth, it can take time or you can see doctor for a HRT adjustment, explaining your concerns.

As far as butt, progesterone seems to help with this. Very effective, combined with an adequate dose of E, for you.

[stephaniec]

has he mentioned any reasons for him breaking up with the other trans girls.