My sister-in-law is visiting and one of her grandchildren has come out as FtM, has picked a new name and started wearing a binder. My SIL is having some problems accepting this and I've tried to give her some resources without appearing too knowledgeable. I'm coming out to her family soon but am not out to them yet since they are having a brothers/sisters only reunion this weekend and I don't want to be the elephant in the room. Anyway, this evening we were talking and my SIL said, "Well as far as I'm concerned, my daughter has two sons and four daughters, not three sons and three daughters." My wife and I looked at each other and the expression on my wife's face was saying, "Don't you dare!" So I just bit my tongue and kept my mouth shut. It will be time soon but not yet.
