I do have the pleasure kit, and I like it a lot. The only issue I've had with the flexrod is it poking through the tip once, with girlfriend on top. She was fine, and there was no damage done. It does make a bit of noise in the beginning, before it's been bent around a few times.
As far as visuals, I will say I was less than impressed when it arrived. I don't really know how to describe it. The website is definitely accurate and all the pictures are obviously of the product, but eh. Less stunning in person? The tip was quite red when I first got it, but it very quickly faded to a dull pink, or rubbed off completely.