Quote from: jgirl76 on June 12, 2014, 01:00:41 AM
Thank you Jenny for the lovely compliments, you're so sweet! <3 Regardless of how I look "overall" in the bigger picture, I just want other girls to know the difference in these procedures so that they can get the best result possible, a result they will be happy with so they won't have to go under the knife twice (hopefully) - At this point a revision isn't going to make me pass better per say, but it's more of a dysphoric image issue... Seeing the sinus prominence causes me discomfort, regardless of what others may see. It is a fact that my sinus would be less prominent had I received the type III procedure. All in all I do feel very blessed to have the results that I do, and I don't mean to seem ungrateful. Thanks again for the compliments and affirmations, HUGS -J
Here is the issue that Jgirl has as I see it ladies,
You all comment on how beautiful she is, how most of you would love to look half as good as her after ffs, etc, etc. But although FFS alongside the intended feminization creates a beautifying effect still ISN'T about beauty, FFS focus is still achieving the most feminine version of ones self POSSIBLE, and Jgirl is emphasising the fact that if you do want to achieve the maximum level of femininity when it comes to your forehead then she warns that the way to achieve this is through type III reconstruction. Because her possibilities of beauty and feminization are ahead of most ladies, it doesn't mean she should by any means, in my eyes, be treated less aggressively in the feminization process, this isn't some kind of socialist ideal in which the girls that are further ahead shouldn't max out their possibilities and the girls who are in the most desperate need of feminization should be the only ones maxing out the possibilities of what can be done to them. I am trying to really explain a somewhat abstract idea of why Jgirl isn't happy with a mediocre result, and in her shoes, neither would I , even if she looks a 12 ! She deserves to have the aggressive forehead work and go up to a 14 if she wants to... She can and should be allowed and be able to achieve the maximum feminine version of herself. Results regarding FFS aren't comparative, they are individual.
I'm sure I made sense to somebody... She makes a lot of sense to me . And as far as I'm concerned, all the good FFS doctors out there should aim to max out every possibility of feminization individually not comparatively, rather than we improved you, but we didn't think you needed the best forehead work because you're already so feminine, only the most masculine of cases deserve the best forehead work.
Her money is as good as anyone's and she worked as hard as a case whose deemed more in need, so why should her results be affected and stopped short of her max possibilities only cause she already looks great?..
