Preventing masculinization.

[shanetastic]

so shy update us on if your parents found out or anything or if you have a therapist now or anything good!

[shy_lory]

Hi

Sorry for not updating. So much has happened since I posted this. I have met many awesome girls online that helped me get through a very sad period of my life. I felt like well there was no hope for me. Just accepting this is starting to feel alot better.  I have talked to a therapist but not a GID specialist. My therapist was pretty much very supportive when I told her I was going to start living as a girl. I just need to get over my fears of transition because I do have alot of fears.

Anyway I just yesterday went to my first real life tg support group. I met some people and heard about some doctors and clinics  . So I dont know, even though Im not to sure about this, Im still starting to go down the transition road .

I have not talked to my parents yet. I am very very sure my mom found my girl clothes. So now Im pretty scared to call my parents again. Im just going to wait for them to call me because I am going to avoid it as much as possible!!

[shanetastic]

Hi

Sorry for not updating. So much has happened since I posted this. I have met many awesome girls online that helped me get through a very sad period of my life. I felt like well there was no hope for me. Just accepting this is starting to feel alot better.  I have talked to a therapist but not a GID specialist. My therapist was pretty much very supportive when I told her I was going to start living as a girl. I just need to get over my fears of transition because I do have alot of fears.

Anyway I just yesterday went to my first real life tg support group. I met some people and heard about some doctors and clinics  . So I dont know, even though Im not to sure about this, Im still starting to go down the transition road .

I have not talked to my parents yet. I am very very sure my mom found my girl clothes. So now Im pretty scared to call my parents again. Im just going to wait for them to call me because I am going to avoid it as much as possible!!

That's awesome though, you made a lot of progress hehe, especially for it being so short you know?  And I think we all have fears of transition for the most part because it's hard to know what to expect   But there always comes that point where you don't care of course.  Anyways though, congrats on all the progress and hopefully your doing what you want.

[shy_lory]

That's awesome though, you made a log of progress hehe, especially for it being so short you know?  And I think we all have fears of transition for the most part because it's hard to know what to expect Tongue  But there always comes that point where you don't care of course.  Anyways though, congrats on all the progress and hopefully your doing what you want.

I really know what I want, I WANT TO DO THIS. Im just scared overthinking I guess. All I know is that I am much happier accepting this and embracing my feminine self than trying to avoid it and cast it off as a phase.

[shanetastic]

That's awesome though, you made a log of progress hehe, especially for it being so short you know?  And I think we all have fears of transition for the most part because it's hard to know what to expect Tongue  But there always comes that point where you don't care of course.  Anyways though, congrats on all the progress and hopefully your doing what you want.

I really know what I want, I WANT TO DO THIS. Im just scared overthinking I guess. All I know is that I am much happier accepting this and embracing my feminine self than trying to avoid it and cast it off as a phase.

Well I think everyone overthinks this to an extent   It's the big problem that now you decided to face after all these years, so how can you not think about it   Anyways though, a therapist is a good start, regardless if they have TG experience, because at least your starting to do something.  Maybe she/he can refer you to a specialized therapist?  But I never had one myself either.  My therapist has only helped a couple patients like myself, and I'm the youngest one so she's still learning too.  Maybe that's why we clash once in a while because I don't think she understands.

On any note, that's good that your doing something about it, and hopefully you can further your progress within a couple of months.  Good luck on everything that is to come in the future

[kalt]

I know you all are going to think this answer is so typical of me but...

Run 3+ miles a day and you won't ever have to worry muscles:-p

That, along with some anti-androgens, and you'll be square.  If you take out meat and use a soy protein supplement(wal-mart sells a good one), then you'll most likely see some feminizing effects, not many but some.

And no, protein won't put on tons of muscle if you work it right.  Besides, protein makes your hair grow^_^

[Tanya1]

absolutely definitely because i am afraid. i have considered becoming more feminine in stages you know. like start growing out my (already doing), starting to act more feminine. i live far away so every time i go visit i can be more feminine. so that they will become suspicious. probably take girl clothes with me and have them find it? i dont know im just scared.

OK SO I REALLY THOUGHT I SHOULD POST THIS!

My parents sort of spent the night at my apartment because they were passing through town from visiting some family and well sort of stayed in my room. In my room, cuz im such a girly girl hehe silly me, i have a secret stash of girl clothes that I sort of tried my best to hide! After they left I noticed that some of the clothes was not how I left it... like someone was looking through my stuff! I think my mom found my girl clothes!! She did not say anything though im scared shes going to tell my dad, but i think i feel happy about it, it could not have happened in a more perfect way! Wow things work out very weird.. I wonder what the next step will be   

okay we have esp too shy I swear!!  We posted at like the exact same time Cheesy

Sweet!  we should talk through YIM or something?

is it me or do mom's almost always find "something" is up? IDK- they just always find out- sometimes you can get away but most of the times they find out your stuff.