I think I'm losing interest in women as sex partners

[stephaniec]

I've always since before puberty considered myself bisexual even though I've basically been asexual for quite awhile. I always wanted a partner and my interest were bi with more emphasis on women. The thing that I'm experiencing now that I've been on HRT for 29 months I think I'm changing significantly. I like women a lot, but there is a marked shift in my desire for a sexual partner. I'm experiencing an ever increasing desire for men. I see men in such a different light then I did 2 years ago and each day its more prominent. I don't mind because I've always thought of men since I was a youngster. I think the HRT has flung the door wide open. Each  day I view woman more for the styles they wear and the smiles I get as part of the tribe. Has anyone gone through a drastic change in the perception of the partners they look for as the time being on HRT gets longer.

[Iliana.Found]

Hey,
I've only always been exclusively attracted to females for as long as I can remember. Even in 2nd grade when I bought a girl a necklace from the dollar store I still remember it was a gold color necklace with an emerald color stone. I thought it was so pretty and I had to get it for her lol Anywhooooo All the way up until Jan 2015 I was attracted to women. Although I would think that extremely manly men, Henry Caville OMG,  were attractive, but not for me. A few months into HRT which was about May 2015, I would say I became Bi with equal attraction to both sexes. That slowly changed to 95% attraction to males and 5% to females a month or so later. Like when I see these women with what I consider to be the perfect body, I am like that is nice and could probably date and have sex with her, but ehhhhh. Now when I see an attractive male, Henry Caville  , I just want to jump there bones lol I think I have always been attracted to males, but just buried it like everything else.

[stephaniec]

I think with me HRT really brought down all the shields.

[Wild Flower]

Okay. When I was on spiro for a year, the little masculinity I had in me went away. I was more giggling, smiling... I dont remember my sexuality changing since I was still very much into masculine men before and after.

I tried watching straight *lesbian* porn but I was more focus on the make up or hair lol. Then I thought it was degrading to women.... BUT if a guy did that... Its hot. Like "cfnm" in which a muscular-big-glutes guy is a house butler, feet against cold floor, to a dominant femdom woman, clad in leather. Red nails against his tan buttocks as he slowly wipes the floor. Not degrading... Which is double standards.

[KyleeKrow]

I can't say my interests have really changed. I still love the ladies. But I've heard of several others who have noticed a shift. I think I have noticed changes in my sexuality, but not in who I find myself being attracted to.

[stephaniec]

I think for me it's not a change so much as it is just more accepting of the way I always have been.

[noleen111]

I had a shift in my sexuality during hrt

As a guy, I was into women.. never had luck with them... then I started hrt i thought i would be a lesbian as my female body developed and my confidence grew, i actually dated a few lesbians, nothing serious.

Then I think I was about two years into my hrt, a friend (she did not know i was trans) of a friends brother needed a date for a wedding. so i was fixed up. He was told I was lesbian. Anyways we hit it off and actually we started dating. It was strange at first and the first time he kissed me was a little strange, but nice. I got use to a man holding me and treating me like a lady. so I was bi. We dated for about 9 months before it ended (he was fine with me being trans and pre-op, that stage I was). I got really brave in the last two months of our relationship as I even gave him oral sex. I liked being the woman in the relationship.

After him I took a break from dating as I then had SRS. After SRS i had fling with woman, it was great fun, but I missed been with a man. So i am straight women then...Then after that ended, i met my current man at a wedding. I was bridesmaid and he was one of the bestmen. We clicked instantly and started dating about 3 months later.. We fell in love and now we are engaged. I cant wait to be his wife. The only sad thing is that I could never give him a child.

Did the hormones change me or was it just me been me.. I think the hormones must have assisted as hormones give woman the interest to reproduce (been broody)

[Hikari]

More for me then :p

[Deborah]

My sexuality has been an open ended question since I first discovered it.  Fortunately, it's something that has never worried me much.


Sapere Aude

[jinruinooto]

I wouldn't say my sexuality has changed. I had repressed feelings of liking guys when I was presenting as a man, and I came out as pansexual before I came out as trans.

I am actually attracted to nerdy guys, there's just something about them

I still identify as a pansexual, but I'm honestly not sure I'm that attracted to women at all anymore. So, I suppose I'll just see where it goes. x3

[stephaniec]

there was this guy at Starbucks this morning sitting next to me and I couldn't keep my eyes off him, wow His was with some older gentlemen and they were speaking English , but their accents were really thick. It sounded possibly Scottish   , but I couldn't understand a single word and I was sitting a foot away. But this guy looked good. There was a time before HRT where I knew I was interested in men ,  but in total embarrassing denial.

[jinruinooto]

Same here. I love accents x3

I just always thought everyone found men attractive. It's a weird jump of logic, but it was my internal justification.