I finally bit the bullet and called the Planned Parenthood nearest to me to see if they could offer me help. Even though I am post op more than 25 years, they can't. They did refer me to another PP facility that is over three hours away. They were very nice.
I really want to find someone closer. I really can't do regular appointments if I have to drive more than an hour each way to get there. I'm not looking to change my body. I just want to be healthy and seeing my doctor frequently is important to me.