I just recently realized that most of the men

[KarlMars]

I have been physically attracted to all my life are ones I would have wanted to look like or look similar to. They don't all look alike, but sometimes there were personality traits or at least what an actor was portraying in one film.

[kk]

Before I figured out I'm trans and interested in girls, I thought the feeling I had for certain men was sexual attraction.  I recently realized I find them attractive because I want to look like them and act like them, not bed them.

[Felix]

I have been physically attracted to all my life are ones I would have wanted to look like or look similar to. They don't all look alike, but sometimes there were personality traits or at least what an actor was portraying in one film.

I was the same way with a lot of guys. Eventually I was able to sort out who I wanted to be with and who I wanted to be, but it took some time and intentional thinking. I still catch myself blurring those lines occasionally.

Nothing wrong with having people fall into both categories though.