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Started by Rachel_Christina, March 20, 2016, 12:51:33 PM

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Rachel_Christina

Hello my friends,
Im am new to this forum as of today, I'v passed by many times in the past as a guest and finally decided to join!
My name is, Christine-Rachel, Christine is fine though :)
I'm 25, 26 in May, I had my first meeting with a physchiatrist a week ago, she refered me to an Endo and I'v my appointement with them in early July.
I haven't come out to my family yet, honestly fear the worst! But what must be done must be done, and number one right now is me, I'm getting my life in Order
Anywhoo that was a long probably boring intro so I'l leave you guy n girls be for now!
Byee, Christine! :3 xx


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Jacqueline

Christine,

Welcome to Susan's,

As you may have noticed, it is a great site for support and gaining information. We even try to have a little fun.

If you have not looked at them yet, I am including some links. They have welcome information and the rules of the site. Please do take a moment if you have not yet:

Things that you should read





Look around more. Ask questions and join in. I know how hard coming out to family is. I am only out to part of my own right now. I hope it goes smoother than you anticipate and you find what you are looking for both here and in life.

With warmth,

Joanna
1st Therapy: February 2015
First Endo visit & HRT StartJanuary 29, 2016
Jacqueline from Joanna July 18, 2017
Full Time June 1, 2018





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Laura_7


Hello and welcome  :)

Here are some resources that could help:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,197523.msg1756901.html#msg1756901

You might translate them to your language, for example with translate.google.com .

Some people say its easier if you can talk about things that really move you deeply ... people might be more understanding then ...
if that is not the case yet you might try to work on that level ...

Well you are not the only one ... and being transgender is more and more accepted ...
people begin to understand its normal people with needs and cravings like everyone else ...


*hugs*
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Maddie

Willkommen
Bienvenue
Benvenuto
Christine-Rachel!
Crossdressed as small child. Told parents, then hid it.
1980s-2010s Alternately "out" to varying degrees and/or outright denial and man-faking
2015 Surrendered/allowed my she-self to show more outwardly. Changes begin.
Currently working with counselor. No HRT or surgeries yet.
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KarlMars

Welcome to Susan's and congratulations for your appointment. Good luck.

V M

Hi Christine  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Rachel_Christina

Aw thank yous all so much for the welcomes, yous are all so sweet! :3
And thank you Laura for the PM, honestly with my parents I don't how to deal with them right, time will tell, they already hate my long hair :@ they'v always had me cut it when young. Now I live on my own and the oportunity to live my life how I want!
I would love to maybe youtube video's or atleast track my progress in the forum for others, we will see! I'm awefully shy.
Thanks again you dears for your kind words!
Christine xx


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gennee

Hi Christine and welcome to Susan's.


:)
Be who you are.
Make a difference by being a difference.   :)

Blog: www.difecta.blogspot.com
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Rachel_Christina

Quote from: Laura_7 on March 20, 2016, 01:58:04 PM
Hello and welcome  :)

Here are some resources that could help:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,197523.msg1756901.html#msg1756901

You might translate them to your language, for example with translate.google.com .

Some people say its easier if you can talk about things that really move you deeply ... people might be more understanding then ...
if that is not the case yet you might try to work on that level ...

Well you are not the only one ... and being transgender is more and more accepted ...
people begin to understand its normal people with needs and cravings like everyone else ...


*hugs*

Thanks again Laura for your private message, I hope you see this! I am greatful!
I should soon be able to reply and fix my profile and stuff soon too
And yes I am a fan of LOTR :3
Love, Christine


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Laura_7

Quote from: ChristineRachel on March 26, 2016, 07:11:25 AM
Thanks again Laura for your private message, I hope you see this! I am greatful!
I should soon be able to reply and fix my profile and stuff soon too
And yes I am a fan of LOTR :3
Love, Christine

Yes after 15 postings you can send private messages and use an avatar picture and make other changes to the profile.

I see ... another fan ;)
I especially like the clothing of the women ;)


*many hugs*
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Andie73

Welcome!!   *hugs*


Good people here.. Enjoy the community!


*hugs*


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Rachel_Christina

Quote from: Laura_7 on March 26, 2016, 07:21:22 AM
Yes after 15 postings you can send private messages and use an avatar picture and make other changes to the profile.

I see ... another fan ;)
I especially like the clothing of the women ;)


*many hugs*

Yes it will be good to add an avatar and set my gender, i feel like I could revert back without it set right haha
OMG yes, I'm definitly an elf :3 arwens hair <333


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Rachel_Christina

Quote from: Andie73 on March 26, 2016, 09:28:10 AM
Welcome!!   *hugs*


Good people here.. Enjoy the community!


*hugs*

Thank you! :)
And yes the community here is fantastic!
I excepted this a month ago and honestly its the best thing I'v ever done, my life has changed so much and all for the better!
I can't wait for HRT! :3


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Laura_7

Quote from: ChristineRachel on March 26, 2016, 12:47:33 PM
Yes it will be good to add an avatar and set my gender, i feel like I could revert back without it set right haha
OMG yes, I'm definitly an elf :3 arwens hair <333

So you will have an avatar of you as elf ? :) <3


*hugs*
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Rachel_Christina

Quote from: Laura_7 on March 26, 2016, 12:54:00 PM
So you will have an avatar of you as elf ? :) <3


*hugs*

If I was that pretty, helly yea!
But I will just find the best of me and that will have to do :')
I don't think I'm too bad
I may get grilled on the "how well do I pass threads" time will tell!
Cross the fingers for HRT soon
Love Christine!


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Laura_7

Quote from: ChristineRachel on March 26, 2016, 12:59:29 PM
If I was that pretty, helly yea!
But I will just find the best of me and that will have to do :')
I don't think I'm too bad
I may get grilled on the "how well do I pass threads" time will tell!
Cross the fingers for HRT soon
Love Christine!

Lol fingers crossed  :)

Give it some time ...
try a few things ... with makeup and hairstyle ...
and people on the passing thread will give you a few hints :)

And maybe one day you come to make your own elf costume ...
there are sewing instructions by role play groups which are not that difficult  :)


*hugs*
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Rachel_Christina

Quote from: Laura_7 on March 26, 2016, 01:02:44 PM
Lol fingers crossed  :)

Give it some time ...
try a few things ... with makeup and hairstyle ...
and people on the passing thread will give you a few hints :)

And maybe one day you come to make your own elf costume ...
there are sewing instructions by role play groups which are not that difficult  :)


*hugs*

Im lucky my hair is already atleast 7-8 inches long, Iv been trying all my life to grow it out, and now I live away from my parents thats the end of hair cuts :')
Ah I don't think I could sew, needles :S
I could design though, I'm kind of artistic
My cousin sews! We could work on it :')
I may be able to fix my profile now! Ima check! :')
Christine, xx


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Laura_7

Quote from: ChristineRachel on March 26, 2016, 01:20:58 PM
Im lucky my hair is already atleast 7-8 inches long, Iv been trying all my life to grow it out, and now I live away from my parents thats the end of hair cuts :')
Ah I don't think I could sew, needles :S
I could design though, I'm kind of artistic
My cousin sews! We could work on it :')
I may be able to fix my profile now! Ima check! :')
Christine, xx

Yes a home designed elf costume :) Great  :)

Well from your avatar picture you already pass well :)

There are a few threads on voice training ... that could help ...
imo most important is consistency, a few minutes every day for weeks ...
don't overstrain your voice, just stop then ...
but consistent training helps train the muscles that keep the larynx in a higher position ...
many people say voice training is the hardest thing.


*hugs*
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Rachel_Christina

Quote from: Laura_7 on March 26, 2016, 01:53:57 PM
Yes a home designed elf costume :) Great  :)

Well from your avatar picture you already pass well :)

There are a few threads on voice training ... that could help ...
imo most important is consistency, a few minutes every day for weeks ...
don't overstrain your voice, just stop then ...
but consistent training helps train the muscles that keep the larynx in a higher position ...
many people say voice training is the hardest thing.


*hugs*

Aw thanks, I hope so,... I don't always feel confident, i went out dreesed first time for my psycho apointement! It was nerve racking, but was running late due to trafic, so I hadn't time to worry about being nervous, it was great!
Yes my voice is disasterous, but I am working on it!
Definitly considering maybe coaching, but for now I work hard on the holding the Larynx up, im good at that now, i do it all the time.
Thanks again :) Christine


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Laura_7

Quote from: ChristineRachel on March 26, 2016, 02:14:16 PM
Aw thanks, I hope so,... I don't always feel confident, i went out dreesed first time for my psycho apointement! It was nerve racking, but was running late due to trafic, so I hadn't time to worry about being nervous, it was great!
Yes my voice is disasterous, but I am working on it!
Definitly considering maybe coaching, but for now I work hard on the holding the Larynx up, im good at that now, i do it all the time.
Thanks again :) Christine

The ideal setup for the first time :)
So you had no time to overthink, and could be just yourself  :)

Here are some hints concerning voice:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,190936.msg1701516.html#msg1701516

Imo it comes down to persistent training ...
a few minutes a day for a few weeks or months ...
just don't overstrain the voice, stop then ...

Trying a few variations like trying to be more breathy and using much more going up and down with intonation within words can also be helpful. And recording it, and listening to results and variations for the effect.

Just be persistent, others have done it too :)


*hugs*
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