I tried wrapping "it" in gauze, tucking "them" in their little recesses then pointing "it" back and taping "it" down. If taped correctly it gives exactly the right silhouette through opaque panties to the point that you could walk around in panties alone without giving things away, you can pee and make exactly the right sound, and it put's enough pressure that the incontinence problem spiro causes is mitigated. You do need to shave unless you're fond of impromptu waxing sessions. Unfortunately I haven't been able to find just the right tape, one that is flesh colored with enough adhesion but that doesn't tear the skin when removed. Ouch!