Hello, Ericka,
There is likely nothing that an electrologist can use other than a topical anesthetic like the one being used on you.
Question: Have you looked into other methods of hair removal? They all hurt and none is very comfortable but I had light/heat energy transfer and it got all of the dark hair on my face. It hurt when I was getting hit with a pules but I was fine in less than an hour.
Laser might be less painful for you.
After each LH treatment I used lots of aloe gel.
I hope that this helps.
Wing Walker