Sex drive & unwanted erections

[princeof_parties]

So I've been on T for about three years now and my sex drive has definitely increased, but it seems like it fades in and out of my life.  Some weeks I am completely uninterested in sex and other weeks (like this one) I have to jerk off at least three times a day to avoid unwanted erections.  Even so, lately I've experienced a lot of erections in public or at inappropriate times and I don't know how to get rid of them.  I just wanted to see if there were other guys that could speak to this experience, but I also have a couple of questions:

1. How many times do you usually jerk off per day/week?

2. Do you ever get erections in public or at unwanted times and how do you calm it down?

3. What does getting an erection feel like for you?  (Either post-op or pre-op.)

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[FtMitch]

1. 1-3 times usually
2. Yes, I do get them at unwanted times.  Luckily they aren't noticeable to other people.
3. Hm.... That's a hard one.  They feel like arousal?  LOL, I don't know how else to explain that...

Generally, it doesn't bother me too much.  My sex drive can also go up and down depending on the week, but it's generally pretty high.  Much higher than before T. 

[FTMax]

1. How many times do you usually jerk off per day/week?

2. Do you ever get erections in public or at unwanted times and how do you calm it down?

3. What does getting an erection feel like for you?  (Either post-op or pre-op.)

1. At most, once a day. But usually 2-3 times per week.

2. Nope.

3. Hard to describe really. Agree with FtMitch, it just feels like arousal.

[AnxietyDisord3r]

To #3, I feel a hardness in the clitoris, like it's standing on end, and in the labia majora. I've only ever had this happen when packing or once I started T.

[Tossu-sama]

1. It's a daily thing.

2. I suppose in public is an unwanted time... And yes, I do or at least it feels like it. My mind wanders around a lot, no matter what I'm doing. I just think about something else and eventually it just passes. No rocket science there.

3. I don't know, it's just... that feeling. No operations done in that department.

[mac1]

When I was younger that was a frequent problem. I found it to be a rather embarrassing situation when face to face with a woman. The only solution was to hold something in front of me so it couldn't be seen.

[WorkingOnThomas]

1-3 times a day
Yes, but I just wait until it goes away
Irritating actually because my stuff rubs up against my clothes and after a while it gets kind of painful

[AnxietyDisord3r]

On further reflection, it's the labia minora, not the labia majora.

[Ayden]

1. Not very often at all, but I'm married. We have a lot more sex now though.

2. I don't remember ever getting aroused in public. My jobs have been far too stressful and usually I'm all business when I'm out of the house.

3. No surgeries. Just feels like I'm aroused? I don't really know how to explain it. 

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[youngbuck]

1. Once a day at most, but I sometimes go 2-3 days without jerking off. It depends on how busy I am, my general stress levels, etc. Overall, probably 4-5 times a week, which is definitely more than pre-T.

2. It's happened to me in public but is honestly pretty uncommon, and seems driven more by boredom than anything else. I've gotten spontaneous boners while sitting in traffic, for example, but never (or least very rarely) at work.

3. It just feels like arousal, as others have said. I'd say it's a more obvious (and hardening) sensation than what I used to experience pre-T, but yeah, it's difficult to get more specific than that.