Welcome to the site. I hope you find it comfortable here now that you have started posting. It is not easy to reveal such intimate information about things we try to keep hidden. Thanks for sharing.
It can become a challenge for SO's as they think about it more. If they have questions or need information, there are a couple of significant other spots on the site. One is pretty public and open to most people. the other one is really supposed to be a more private version.
Once again, welcome to Susan's. Look around a little more, ask questions and continue to join in.
With warmth,
Joanna