First, heres some back ground info:
(I'm 15)
From ages 0-5: I was raised to like what ever I like and I grew up rather androgynously. I liked both boy & girl things, hung out w/ both boys & girls, ect... I didn't really get gender at that age. I just felt that there were two sides, boy and girl. I knew I was on the girl side but it didn't matter to me since it basicaly meant nothing to me. Gender was almost nonexistant to me.
Ages 6-10: I now knew what gender was, as well as sex and what male and female was. I didn't fowllow any gender rolls & I didn't feel like I had to. I was ok with being a girl, but sometimes I would take up cross dreaming and I'd imagine how life will be as a male. At 9 I began to grow breasts, but I was in total denile of it. I'd reject the notion of developing, and I didn't want to be a woman. At 11 I developed a very sexualized veiw of the sexes. I felt a longing to be male, but repressed as I knew I would never be one. I concluded that I must just be into men, rather than wanting to be one. The first time I tried to touch myself & stuck my finger inside I was freaked out. It felt so wrong & I wasn't able to sleep that night. Soon after I didn't even want to take my under wear off. I even showered with it on & changed as quickly as possible. At 12 I became very depressed. I still held a sexual veiw of the sexes, and still felt the same longing to be male, concluding that I'm straight. I began to feel a little more ok as a girl but began to cross dream more. I felt like one of the girls but kept longing to be male. At 13 I began to explore how I felt. I did some reasearch and began to feel I may be trans. I then ID'ed as FTM. At 14 I began to feel more dysphoria, and when I first started binding it felt great. I began packing with socks & the first time I saw myself with a bulge in the mirror I was so happy I had trouble getting to sleep. I transitioned socially over that year.
Now: At 15 I felt my disphoria die down as I looked more & more like a guy. I felt so happy, and I was even able to become comfortable living as a guy in a female body. Then out of the blue I felt something I'd never felt. It was like I felt like a girl, would be ok living as one, and possibly even wanted to be one.
Now I've been getting some very conflicting feelings lately. Basically, it's one like second I feel a strong longing to be male, and sometimes (either with or without) dysphoria. And the dysphoria, I hate it. I wish I were male so badly but knowing I can't be one makes me feel depressed. I want a penis, I want to produce sperm, I want to have a flat chest, I want to be male! But being female, I cant stand it. Sometimes I even feel the intense longing to at least live as, or just be, a male (even if I;ve just got a female bod).
Then the next second I feel the (intense even) feeling of comfort being female. And even the want to live as someone who is just a female. (But I'd be okay as a male too, and sometimes despite that I just don't really care about it and like just happening to be a female)
Then overall I just feel no preference, but would rather be male because I'd just like it more than I do being female. It's like I feel genderless, and numb.