Thoughts and feelings

Dena · October 07, 2016, 11:23:47 PM

Be wary of tests like that as they can be confusing. Most people are a mixture of both genders but the ratios may vary. I still have a fair amount of my maleness even after almost 40 years but I have never doubted my need to transition and I have never regretted it. What is important is for you to define the gender role you will be comfortable with and alter your life to match it. Don't use an off the shelf stereotype as that will most likely leave you with a different type of dysphoria.

Kevinwg · October 08, 2016, 12:17:18 AM

Yup it was confusing. Got kinda flustered.

Kevinwg · October 08, 2016, 05:35:31 PM

2 days till my appointment with a counselor.starting to get excited and scared at the same time. Told my wife about the appointment and that I need to talk to someone about some issues.

LizK · October 08, 2016, 05:42:14 PM

Quote from: Kevinwg on October 08, 2016, 05:35:31 PM
2 days till my appointment with a counselor.starting to get excited and scared at the same time. Told my wife about the appointment and that I need to talk to someone about some issues.

Like any issue the first step is to recognise you have one...I hope you get some peace of mind after talking to a counsellor. Good luck for Monday

Liz

Kevinwg · October 08, 2016, 06:12:29 PM

Nope Tuesday is the appointment, Monday is a holiday here. So I guess 3 days then lol

LizK · October 08, 2016, 06:20:50 PM

Quote from: Kevinwg on October 08, 2016, 06:12:29 PM
Nope Tuesday is the appointment, Monday is a holiday here. So I guess 3 days then lol

Well then good luck for Tuesday!!

Liz

Kevinwg · October 11, 2016, 07:55:34 PM

Went to my appointment today and it went well. I have a bunch of things to still workout. I have another appointment on the 25th.

On my way back in get a text from my old boss (I have a $10,000 check for you) I tell him not in town right now be back in a bit. He texts me again with...

It's only something you qualify for if you finish your term out with the company . I'm looking for 1 year commitment . You get $1000 for coming back $5000 June 1 and balance sept or .............ill pay your rent for 12 months in the apt you living in .

Like what the..... it's the same manipulative crap say one thing and change it later.

AnxietyDisord3r · October 13, 2016, 10:51:46 AM

If you know he has a history of not living up to his word, just delete that text and move on. Wow, your old boss either thinks you're a hot property OR he's too lazy to do the hiring manager thing. Either way, someone ought to take that as a recommendation at a new job, lol.

Kevinwg · October 13, 2016, 11:02:43 AM

I don't think I will be hearing from him anymore. I told him that my mental health is more important than his games.

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