I can honestly say that 95% Of my friends I have because of RPG's. I started back in the late 90s with the D&D red box and shortly there after the AD&D 2ed manuals, today I run D&D Encounters on wednesdays at my local game store, only one of the players knew I was trans before I showed up fem one day told them my name was Serena, Hope you don't have a problem with it and if you insult my outfit know that I have full control over your characters life and death :-P
In between those two events I have run/played/owned a few other games. D&D, AD&D, D&D3e, D&D4e. D&D5e, the whole WOD universe and half of new WOD. (YAY changeling 20th kickstarter going on now!!) several games by eden games studios, the marvel universe diceless system which I love, the old West end games star wars D6 system, the D20 star wars, star wars saga edition and even playtested the new star wars from fantasy flight. I have also played almost all of fantasy flight games warhammer 40K RPG's. there are dozens of PDF's on my phone for various games There are at least a few dozen more games I own and have run or played but this list is long enough, suffice it to say that being a gamer geek is a bigger part of my identity than being transgender, a woman, or really anything else.
Well I better get back to playing WOW.
Serena, AKA Avaron, AKA Valwen, AKA Ardea, AKA Sir Elrose, AKA I swear I will have a name next session.