So I began seeing a new therapist, one whom has expressed early on that she doesn't provide letters of referral. At first, this bothered me, but soon became a non-concern as we began talking a bit more. I figured I'd see her as more of a stress sponge, and less as a gateway for transition. One of the things I came out of my sessions with her was blogging.
I find the written word is easier to elaborate on deep concerns, as well as being able to find the proper words to convey what are usually complex feelings. So I began writing this blog and low and behold people have been sharing it. Finding an all-inclusive "transgender story" seems to be fairly common, as we all have similar experiences in various parts of our lives. We also have a lot of differences, which I believe are what emphasize the human condition and are what creates a relate-able story.
When all is said and done, I've found that putting concerns onto "paper" have reduced the overall daily stress in my life, as I am starting to carry a lot less of this baggage around with me.
Anyways, if anyone would be interested in reading or sharing these written blurbs, you are more than welcome. I hope that maybe my experiences translate somewhat with yours. It has helped me bridge the gap with a few of my friends and family.
http://heathernow.wordpress.com
