I really need help. I am 18 years old, ftm, pre-everything. I am come out to my parents, one friend, and a few therapists. When I came out to my parents a year ago, I thought they took it pretty well, my dad said he would do anything to help make me happy.
A year later today, it has completely changed. I scheduled myself an appointment with a new therapist, and mentioned it to my mom the night before; she flipped and told my dad. We all got up in the middle of the night and my dad was crying, saying I was out of control, how he needed to put me in a hospital (he can't do that because I am 18, I am in control of my life). I was so upset, I couldn't even control my emotions, I was all over the place. He kept saying that he had so many hopes for me, like to have kids. "I brought you into this world as a girl, that is what you will always be." "You say you're unhappy? You make me miserable, I have thought about ending my life multiple times." At that moment I knew this was really serious.
"If you're going to be like that, I can't be around you." He was saying how that is the only reason I have a job was because of this. He wanted me to move out and get away from him. How he is so embarrassed by me and will never be proud of me. I know he was upset, but damn it have some respect for me.
Now a few months later, they both act like nothing ever happened. I guess he just expected me to never bring it up again. I need help because I don't know what to do.