Dating Sites, USA. What are the best sites for mtF women to safely find men?

[JenniferLopezgomez]

Jennifer, That's great, what could be nicer!!! You lucky girl. Darn in my early years I had some sugar daddies what to "keep" me, why oh why did I not move in & accept being their "wife" woman. I love a dominate man, what other man would you want anyway. I always loved it when out of the blue a man wanted sex, how great to just enjoy him when he was ready for whatever he needed to do..........I have a friend in this group that has a great man, sometimes during her cooking dinner her man goes for a quickie with her bent over a counter, then she goes back to cooking dinner............she loves her man...

Indeed girl friend -- well this particular man I am sure wants a quickie bent over counter with me while I would be cooking his dinner -- he has already told me he wants quickies with him and me in his professional office when I  would visit him often during work hours. He is the dominant boss so he has this power in his professional office. Hmnnn I love it !!!!!

Jennifer xx

[alex82]

A bit much. X rated Mills & Boon stuff now.

Have either of you thought of forging your own career?

[FrancisAnn]

Normal girl talk, these things happen in real life. I think it's good for us to share life's events. We are all big girls I hope.

Anyway, I'm done, no more messages please.

[FrancisAnn]

A bit much. X rated Mills & Boon stuff now.

Have either of you thought of forging your own career?

If you are blushing, go buy a newspaper & read the funnies. I could share a lot more x rated real life experiences than this....

[alex82]

If you are blushing, go buy a newspaper & read the funnies. I could share a lot more x rated real life experiences than this....

So could I.

I'm not blushing. You asked - and I told you where to go to get easily laid.

[FrancisAnn]

OK Cupid works very well, it's easy to control who sees our profile, block the losers.......easy to set up. All & all a very good means to discretely find men to date. I've already had several decent men reply.

[2cherry]

I think it is probably detrimental, and it can enforce difference.

This may be controversial, but there is a lot to be said for the attitude that what you do in private is what you do in private. You might have a laugh about some of it with a couple of close friends, but nobody else really needs the details. They all get the idea - they don't want chapter and verse too.

I've always found that to be the prevalent attitude in most of the Middle East (I haven't been to KSA - so I'd expect that to be different), and it's a little bit more freeing than the zoned areas in western cities, or the idea that once you're in a box, you stay in it, while telling every passer by what's going on in there.

Interesting!

Maybe there is a good point in having taboo's ? A taboo seems to prevent social incohesion, where the everyday structure isn't bothered by excesses or too much differences that distract from a common goal or purpose. Similar like the practices of religion that seems to be "invented" as a kind of glue, for social and hierarchical purposes.

This truly makes me re-think the concepts of acceptance, visibility and accentuating differences instead of what we should be doing: seek similarities instead of differences.

Anyway, back on topic. 

[alex82]

Interesting!

Maybe there is a good point in having taboo's ? A taboo seems to prevent social incohesion, where the everyday structure isn't bothered by excesses or too much differences that distract from a common goal or purpose. Similar like the practices of religion that seems to be "invented" as a kind of glue, for social and hierarchical purposes.

This truly makes me re-think the concepts of acceptance, visibility and accentuating differences instead of what we should be doing: seek similarities instead of differences.

Anyway, back on topic. 

I don't know, it is interesting. I'm not sure about taboos being good for us. They're pretty hideous if you fall outwith.

Ultimately it's great that people can express themselves, which is where those countries fall down.

[FrancisAnn]

Men, can't live with them & can't live without them. OK Cupid works fine but men? One wanted me to meet him tonight hotel room to take care of his needs asap. Another man wanted to go slow dancing with me dressed nice in a dress & see where that takes us. I like both types really.

[JenniferLopezgomez]

Men, can't live with them & can't live without them. OK Cupid works fine but men? One wanted me to meet him tonight hotel room to take care of his needs asap. Another man wanted to go slow dancing with me dressed nice in a dress & see where that takes us. I like both types really.

I like both types of men also Francis Ann. TBH more of my in-person dates with men have been of the first type you mentioned. Pleasing men brings me great happiness. 

There is another type of date I did quite often in 2015. This is where I lived with a man for anywhere from a couple of days to a month and basically I was his housewife in one form or another. Sometimes I paid my own food but the man provided the roof.  I did this with several men I initially met online, so yes this is possible too. Not all the relationships worked out perfectly, but I wasn't raped or attacked ever. Mostly it was quite fun. I tend to attract nice gentleman it seems -- having verbal eloquence seems to attract a more gentlemanly type of man for me.

Now what I really prefer though is to find my husband Mr. Right. I have many candidates but one in particular stands out. I'll be confirming a lot more about my relationship with HIM in the next couple of weeks. This feels like it COULD be for the rest of my life. 

We will soon see. To protect myself I will be sharing only SOME of the details online since I already share online too many details of my real life. But certainly I will share at least some of it here, and other places online.

I will probably get my boob job next week !!!!!

Jennifer xx