Feel like a zero plus zero?

[AnxietyDisord3r]

I know this is a really weird observation, but did anyone else feel post top surgery like they were a bit desexualized (Western, North American here)? My culture sexualizes women's breasts and men's penises. Women's vulvas are treated like they don't exist, because "men" only need the hole (vagina) for pleasure. So having a flat chest and a vulva seems like being sexless, even though I'm not. (And I have a little t-dick, but it's not visible due to large mons and pubic hair.)

I guess if I were an androgyne this would be a good place to be (I'm not, I'm more andro in gender expression but male in gender).

I realize this is very culturally specific but ... anybody else have such thoughts?