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Asking Again - Am I Passable?

Started by Stella Sophia, August 13, 2015, 04:51:54 AM

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Stella Sophia

Hi Lovelies,

Sorry I am asking again its just that I figured how to post pics and the one I have for an avatar was just a bad angle for me, here are better pics. Passable? Feel free to rate 1 lowest 10 highest.







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Jessica Merriman

Hard to answer for a few reasons. One cannot judge another's pass ability based on a few selfies. How do you sound, move, engage in conversation. Do you feel nervous in public which will out you in a second. How are your mannerism's, speech patterns and social engagements? More to passing than looks girl. Based on your pics in some you do and others in different light conditions no. Just relax and be you. The you that is deep inside your heart, mind and soul. The rest will fall into place then. :)
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Trans_Lilly

Oh definitely, you look great


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Ritana

Sorry to disappoint you, andI don't mean to be mean but in my opinion you don't pass at all.

If passing is that important to you, you may need to consider some ffs work.

Best of luck!
A post-op woman
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sparrow

Absolutely gorgeous, but I don't think you're passing.  However... my transdar is way better than your average person.  A good way to tell if you're passing is to walk into a diner.  The exhausted waitstaff will tell you exactly which gender they think you are, when they call you "sir" or "ma'am."
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DianeofCarlsbad

Congratulations on letting your femininity show!

I do agree with what Jessica wrote. But you asked and I would say from those photos you do need to work more on appearing as a female.

I admire you putting the photos out for opinions. Maybe one of these days I will
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kelly_aus

I'm with Jessica, passability is not possible to judge from a few seflies..

Seems some in this thread subscribe to the "looks = pass" theory.. I can tell you that's a fallacy. Without a complete package that includes body language, you just look like a feminine man.

I'm sure some here would also suggest all sorts of FFS for me in order to pass.. Funny thing is, I live and work as a woman. I use womens bathrooms and change rooms.. And not one odd look do I get.
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Ritana

Quote from: sparrow on June 18, 2016, 11:08:39 AM
Absolutely gorgeous, but I don't think you're passing.  However... my transdar is way better than your average person.  A good way to tell if you're passing is to walk into a diner.  The exhausted waitstaff will tell you exactly which gender they think you are, when they call you "sir" or "ma'am."

I think most people would call you according to the gender you present yourself in, out of respect. It may not necessarily have to do with passability. That is different from the voice passability on the phone where people (those who don't knowyou)  gender you according to their true perception of your voice, not because they wanna be courteous and polite to you.
A post-op woman
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