Hi Chrissy;
I had a similar experience to you recently. Although not the embarrassment with the panties. i have been back on HRT for about 3.5 years and live about 90% of my time as female, only reverting (or cross dressing as my therapist says) to male dress when I have to meet particular customers. Recently I had to give a presentation as male. Anyway I was dressed in my best male suit and up on a podium using a laser pointer to highlight some items on a Powerpoint screen presentation, when I placed the pointer on the podium and it rolled off it and fell to the floor. Not thinking straight I reached down and then heard a ripping sound (also heard by the audience) as the fabric was drawn tightly against my now rounded buttocks (I have added 2.5" to my buttocks and they now project outwards ), and my trousers split from waistband to crotch in a ripping sound. Luckily that was the last slide and the end of my speech and I indicated that needed to rush to the bathroom and exited crab like sideways off the stage and headed for reception seeking a safety pin.
Now these days I can only wear women's pants or skinny jeans (when forced to present as my male self) as my newly developed curves just don't assist me in presenting as male. Mind you most male shirts and jackets don't fit either as I now have 44B going on C Cup breasts, whereas Women's blouses and typos are made with female curves in mind.
Judith:Lynn