My Name, is Billy. I am a 23 year old straight cisgendered male. Recently I was in a relationship with a pre-op transgirl. Currently, we have broken up after almost two years and i am crying right now and depressed as we speak. I am not writing this to spam, troll, seek attention or add drama, and no i am not a fake. The reason i am posting this is because I want to turn my depression into something positive. I am fully aware of the transition process and what it takes to fully transition. She has taught me so much about the beautiful community. I have heard tales of trans men and women having difficulties finding a significant other because of all the phobia and hate going on in this world. Well, I never hated or was ever scared of my ex girlfriend. Since i met her and the times i shared with her, they were so wonderful I did so much with her and we spent a lot of time together. She is the girl i dreamed of as a future wife. I loved her for her heart and personality and didn't care for her looks or body. But as time passed we have argued to where we were unhappy, but i want to say it was not because of her being trans. Our personalities would clash and we became incompatible and unhappy. I have to accept that now even though my heart still aches and I am in tears. To all the trans men and women out there, do not give up hope. There are men like me and women somewhere who are willing to accept and love trans people and see them as how they want to be seen. Because I am a guy who likes girls, I am going to refer to the women. I feel transgirls and transwomen are still fully female no matter what anyone says, whether pre-op or post-op. They are beautiful and just like any other woman in this society. Do not let the phobia of what the media thinks of trans people get to any of you beautiful women. All of you have something beautiful to offer to any lucky guys or girls who come across you. The same can be said for transmen as well. You will find a girl or guy who sees you as a handsome knight and shining armor. Please to all you beautiful people out there, do not lose hope. Hang on and pull through all the Bullcrap you may encounter and you will find the happiness you deserve. I hope this message makes many of the transwomen and men rethink about the odds of finding a significant other, Because as cruel as this world is, There is someone for everyone. Keep holding on to that hope. Forgive me if my grammer is wierd, I am trying to compose myself while writing this message. Thank you for reading this. All of you.
