Good morning. I am Brenda and am 60 years old. I have struggled dealing with Brenda in my life since I was 11 years old. At times it has not been easy to accept who I am. As I got older things got better. I know I am in the older age group here and hope to hear from older members, or anyone who cares to offer advice. I just came out to my wife in the last week and she supports me 100%. What a relief it was to have her tell me she still loved me and wanted me to be happy in my life. I know that we will be needing help and advice as we make our journey. I am so grateful to Susan and the other site moderators and staff for creation of this wonderful place to share our experiences. Just wanted to say hello and plan to visit here often.