Totally get you, I'm 5'2". If you're looking for clothes that fit, there are lots of online retailers in Asia (China particularly) that do nice men's styles in small sizes, often quite cheaply as well which is always a plus.
In terms of looking older, try wearing more formal or professional-type clothing rather than super-casual stuff, it tends to make people assume you can't be a kid. I recently started wearing suits a lot while doing an internship and went from looking totally pre-pubescent to plausible college student age (I'm 17). Also, make sure you get clothes that fit whenever you can, wearing things that hang off you just makes you look more like a little boy.
Being short does make life a bit harder, particularly in early transition, but there are plenty of little cis guys out there too, your height absolutely does not dictate whether you'll be taken seriously or ultimately whether you'll pass, so don't let it hold you back. Good luck man!