My sign language interpreter and I were commiserating about men in a lobby area one time. Without realizing it, I said in a low voice, "I sure as hell won't be a man in the next life..." She laughed out surprised, mouth wide open, and just then, I realized what I did. We laughed together, like we had the world's biggest funny secret and no one else in the class knew about it. During break, we went to an isolated area, and we got to talking about my trans state. I asked her, "What do you think I meant when I said that?" She asked, "Were you born a man?" It went from there.