First OB/GYN appointment

[Gracie]

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[melissa90299]

So you should be about ready for S-E-X about now?

I am already quite a veteran and to think I was a virgin a month ago.

[tinkerbell]

Wow Rommie, what a difference!  I didn't think mine was "interesting" at all.  I usually feel violated as a woman when I go for my gyno exams.  I hate them!

Here is my first experience:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,10142.0.html

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[Sheila]

Really nice Rommie,
  I had a good one too. Instead of consulting  a ob/gyn, I use my regular doctor. They both said I really didn't need to see the two. If something ever comes up that I need a ob/gyn then I will go back and she told me that I'm more than welcome there. She said that no one in her office was the wiser. I must say that the probe was much easier in the stirrups than without. I had it once without and it felt very uncomfortable.
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[melissa90299]

I had a great first visit too, she was also impressed by the work done on me (Kunaporn) While I waited, I studied the big drawing on the wall that detailed all my new parts.

Coming close to five months, it really feels like a vagina instead of a wound that is healing. It is funny feeling, I mean it's like I am always aware that it's there and not the other thing and it really affects how I feel about myself. I just feel like a "normal" woman. I really get irritated when people who know I am TS make an offhand reference to it now. Like this guy gave me this movie to watch that has a trans theme. Like why are you giving this to me to watch?

[tinkerbell]

Hey you!

I think maybe I made that sound better than it was.  It was interesting because the doctor was a bit different... not bad or anything, I just felt there was 'something'?  I found out from a friend that he's a cd'r.  I promise I don't have anything against that and I super thankful that he was my first one and it kind of made me sure that I wanted to have a woman OB/GYN.

The hug at the end wasn't bad or anything? but it was just I don't know... "interesting".  I've never hugged a guy doctor, much less hugged anyone the first time I meet them.

Hi hon   I was just giving you a hard time!  Well, in my case, I had to switch gynecologists after my "glorious" first experience.  He was just too young and kind of cute at the same time  > but honestly that fact made the whole experience even more difficult.  I just felt so exposed, and I had this strange feeling that in the back of his mind he was comparing my vagina with the many natal ones he had seen during his career; hence, I had to look for another doctor. 

Wow, you hug your doctors? kidding! 

*hugs*

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