I have a doctor and two therapists and a case manager that are all supportive, but they keep sending me to endocrinologists that gush old gatekeeper garbage and feel that three counselor letters over a year just aren't enough to keep out people looking for estrogen for "bad reasons". The doctor doesn't know how to prescribe it and doesn't want to given that all the endocrinologists we encounter won't. I tried calling Planned Parenthood as suggested by someone, only to get a cold "We don't do that" by a phone operator in a different state.
I'm about to the end of my rope here. I feel like I don't have the magic words or something, and I have to figure out how this is going to work for my husband too.
What do I need to do here? Is there something I can do to get this moving forward? Even if I have to do something on the dramatic or drastic side?