Comming out to significant other

[Olivia88]

It sounds like my situation is pretty similar to yours Sophia. I have definetly thought about proposing to her cause I love her and she does want to get married and we both want kids. I have always thought of being with a man though and actually getting to live my life as a woman I may want a man instead of a woman. I guess what I am really hoping is she stays in my life. Either relationship or as a friend. She is the person I consider my bestfriend right now and I hope that stays this way. I just don't want to hurt her. Thank you guys again. You are helping me feeling better about this and making the decision to come out a little easier. It may be for the best if our relationship does end. Either way I know I need to do this because I relationship won't be healthy if I keep this from her. Thanks ❤

[Marienz]

It sounds like my situation is pretty similar to yours Sophia. I have definetly thought about proposing to her cause I love her and she does want to get married and we both want kids. I have always thought of being with a man though and actually getting to live my life as a woman I may want a man instead of a woman. I guess what I am really hoping is she stays in my life. Either relationship or as a friend. She is the person I consider my bestfriend right now and I hope that stays this way. I just don't want to hurt her. Thank you guys again. You are helping me feeling better about this and making the decision to come out a little easier. It may be for the best if our relationship does end. Either way I know I need to do this because I relationship won't be healthy if I keep this from her. Thanks [emoji173]

Hi
I hope it's ok to jump in on your thread:) I am a SO and my ex partner now came out to me November last year. We loved each other very much and in some ways we still do. I fully accept her as whoever she needs to be:) I think sometimes people's journeys are different and they need to rediscover themselves and during that time having a SO may be hard. I hope whatever happens you both are able to remain friends:) I understand where you're coming from as she is your best friend.. I am in the same situation as the SO. If you don't remain together she may need time to adjust but in the long run real love and friendship will carry on together as either lovers or bestie friends. Good luck I hope your coming out goes well:) hugs Marie


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[Olivia88]

Hi
I hope it's ok to jump in on your thread:) I am a SO and my ex partner now came out to me November last year. We loved each other very much and in some ways we still do. I fully accept her as whoever she needs to be:) I think sometimes people's journeys are different and they need to rediscover themselves and during that time having a SO may be hard. I hope whatever happens you both are able to remain friends:) I understand where you're coming from as she is your best friend.. I am in the same situation as the SO. If you don't remain together she may need time to adjust but in the long run real love and friendship will carry on together as either lovers or bestie friends. Good luck I hope your coming out goes well:) hugs Marie


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Of course it's okay! It actually makes me feel a lot better and more hopeful that we can stay friends. I feel as though my love for her will never fade. She is my bestie and someone I enjoy spending everyday with. Thank you! I hope you guys stay great friends