SRS with Dr. Brassard October 12 2016

[jfong]

11 yrs later and I actually, for the first time, was curious to see where exactly is my clitoris. I see the hood, I see the urethra but no sign of any clitoris. I looked at several anatomy images or diagrams so that I know where it should be but can't find it!

Isn't it supposed to be the mound beneath the hood? Might not look like a little peanut, but on mine it just look like the part of the mushroom head peeking from underneath.

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[MissGendered]

Isn't it supposed to be the mound beneath the hood? Might not look like a little peanut, but on mine it just look like the part of the mushroom head peeking from underneath.

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Same here, lol, that's why I want more of a hood, to hide me wee bit o' mushroom, ha ha!

[KayXo]

I kinda see something under the clitoral hood like a an opened circle into which you can see some kind of other skin. Is that it?

[jfong]

I kinda see something under the clitoral hood like a an opened circle into which you can see some kind of other skin. Is that it?

Most likely. Just touch it.. Does it feel like the tip of the old part?

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[KayXo]

Got it! Ok. Just thought it would protrude more. Kinda retracted and hidden under the clitoral hood.

[jfong]

Probably gonna be too sensitive if being left exposed.

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[Jenna Marie]

My clit looks more or less like my fingertip, except about a quarter that size. It was hard for me to find at first, too, because it's so small and buried under the hood. I guess that's why there's the joke about men not being able to find it.

[KayXo]

hahahaha! 

[MissGendered]

My clit looks more or less like my fingertip, except about a quarter that size. It was hard for me to find at first, too, because it's so small and buried under the hood. I guess that's why there's the joke about men not being able to find it.

My ex-boyfriend found mine, since I have minimal hooding, and said "hey, what is this white thing", I told him it's my clit, and a few moments later he spotted my scars...

No more daylight oral for MIssy, pfff...

[jfong]

My ex-boyfriend found mine, since I have minimal hooding, and said "hey, what is this white thing", I told him it's my clit, and a few moments later he spotted my scars...

No more daylight oral for MIssy, pfff...

That's a bummer, being the breakfast, lunch, dinner or snacks in between feels good if done properly.

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[Jenna Marie]

MissGendered: Wow, that was kind of rude of him! I don't think cis women would appreciate "what is this thing," either, jeez. Even when I was 16 and fumbling around a girl for the first time, I knew better than to embarrass or criticize her "down there." (And it's always possible to say that you *had* the kind of labiaplasty that cis women get - that you wanted your vulva tidied up a bit, so you found a plastic surgeon who sells that porn star look. That would be perfectly consistent with the scars.)

[MissGendered]

MissGendered: Wow, that was kind of rude of him! I don't think cis women would appreciate "what is this thing," either, jeez. Even when I was 16 and fumbling around a girl for the first time, I knew better than to embarrass or criticize her "down there." (And it's always possible to say that you *had* the kind of labiaplasty that cis women get - that you wanted your vulva tidied up a bit, so you found a plastic surgeon who sells that porn star look. That would be perfectly consistent with the scars.)

Yeah, he had a habit of making me feel bad about myself even before that fateful day. Just before he went downtown on me I had blurted out "i love you" for the first time after he made me orgasm during intercourse. After he spotted my scars, I started crying, and said "I told you I had been mutilated as a baby", but he wouldn't let it go. He says "Didn't your parents take you to the hospital? Who mutilated you?". Well, I had just fallen in love with the big goof, so I cried my eyes out for a while, then told him all about being mis-gendered, reassigned, and being raised as a boy, the whole story came out of me, and he listened and comforted me, but then he started saying things like, "yeah, I noticed your shoulders were kinda wide, now I know why"...crap like that, and within a half hour I was getting cleaned up and he was taking me home. He decided it was too much for him, then we tried the friends with benefits thing, which amounted to him coming over for a booty call one time after he was stood up for a date by another woman, and just last week he emailed me that he was "pursuing another woman" near his home, and he "hoped I was okay"... Grrrrrr!!! So, the heck with him, though he was a hunk, omg, but still, soooo bad for me and my self-esteem. We really got along great, too, except for him being dense about a woman's feelings...

Anyway, I am done dating for a while, I need to take better care of myself, I have been too easy..

Missy

[jujubes1986]

Thank you, Jenna!

I am still hoping that with time mine will also get lost in the folds, lol, but being just 3 months post-revision, they can be seen if you are looking closely...

Which, by the way, is how I lost my boyfriend a month ago, unfortunately. We had been making love all weekend, and late on Sunday morn, right after I orgasmed with him inside me, he asks me if I wanted him to go down on me. Well, greedy little tart that I am, I threw caution to the wind, and said, "mmhmmm". Well, it was already full daylight, and my pubes were still pretty short, and the scars were very red from all the activity down there, and he noticed them. "Hey, baby, what is this little scar from"..."Oh, wow, there's another"...I could feel him tracing the outline of the V scar with his finger, and I knew I was undone, ughh, uggh, ughh...

Well, the full story is in my first post, linked below, I don't wanna derail this thread any more than I already have, but yeah, I lost him soon after...

So, yep, I want my scars to fade, fade, fade away, too! lol..

Missy

I'm sorry to hear that!


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[jujubes1986]

Hi Jujubes!

You are just a bit over three months post-op, right?

Yeah, my clit was still numb at about five months, then it seemed like the swelling went down enough for 'yummy' messages to reach my brain. Do you still get the electric zaps and occasional pain twinges? If so, that is your nerves reconnecting and forming new connections, as the healing process continues. I had a HUGE set of zaps about half-way through my 5th month, and that seemed to be the big connection I was needing to get full-on ladywood and find the 'magic spot' that took me into toe-curling territory..

Be patient, explore the area gently, and try to focus on just enjoying the sensations without worrying yourself.  Worry has ruined more female orgasms than any ham-fisted man ever could, lol..

My scars were very obvious until about a year, it takes time, hun...

(HUGS)

Missy

Ok will keep that in mind thank you


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[jujubes1986]

Yeah, he had a habit of making me feel bad about myself even before that fateful day. Just before he went downtown on me I had blurted out "i love you" for the first time after he made me orgasm during intercourse. After he spotted my scars, I started crying, and said "I told you I had been mutilated as a baby", but he wouldn't let it go. He says "Didn't your parents take you to the hospital? Who mutilated you?". Well, I had just fallen in love with the big goof, so I cried my eyes out for a while, then told him all about being mis-gendered, reassigned, and being raised as a boy, the whole story came out of me, and he listened and comforted me, but then he started saying things like, "yeah, I noticed your shoulders were kinda wide, now I know why"...crap like that, and within a half hour I was getting cleaned up and he was taking me home. He decided it was too much for him, then we tried the friends with benefits thing, which amounted to him coming over for a booty call one time after he was stood up for a date by another woman, and just last week he emailed me that he was "pursuing another woman" near his home, and he "hoped I was okay"... Grrrrrr!!! So, the heck with him, though he was a hunk, omg, but still, soooo bad for me and my self-esteem. We really got along great, too, except for him being dense about a woman's feelings...

Anyway, I am done dating for a while, I need to take better care of myself, I have been too easy..

Missy

I'm sorry


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[KayXo]

Sorry to hear that Missy but you deserve better.

[MissGendered]

Thank you, ladies...

I started off from a place of such deep insecurity, I was happy just to be able to grab onto even a moment of 'normal' interaction with a man, where ever I could find it. Now, I am at the point where that doesn't do me any good at all, I need a 'for real' love, not just a lover...

Thanks again,

Missy

[jujubes1986]

Thank you, ladies...

I started off from a place of such deep insecurity, I was happy just to be able to grab onto even a moment of 'normal' interaction with a man, where ever I could find it. Now, I am at the point where that doesn't do me any good at all, I need a 'for real' love, not just a lover...

Thanks again,

Missy

I totally get you!


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[MissGendered]

I totally get you!

((HUGS))

:-) Missy

[jujubes1986]

I noticed that there are a lot of trans lesbian in our community I think that's awesome!!! Maybe I'll try with a female then maybe I'll finally have an orgasm! Pray for me!


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