Arousal and PE Issues - MTF relationship?

[help.confused88]

Hey there...

Was just realizing more and more that I suffer from mild PE (premature ejaculation)... I'm still deciding if i'll transition or not but deff want to be with my girlfriend... Sex is OK sometimes but some other times I just last 2 or 3 minutes tops. My issue is that every-time I think of naked women or even the act of having sex I get this weird feeling in my penis, like if I needed to ejaculate to get some relief from the feeling. Kind of like a burning/throbbing sensation. My fear is that I use to masturbate a lot when I was young.. and came to realize that I'd basically watch porn to ejaculate and not really to enjoy what I was seeing. This led me to think that every time I see a woman my head might be saying... "naked women = must ejaculate"  (not sure if I'd relate it with wanting to be a woman or not - or looking like one)... This is being a tough one in my relationship lately...
Was wondering if anyone else here had the same issue.. maybe to see if it happens more among MTF due to anxiety or something.

Anyways, thanks for your time !

[RobynD]

Props to you for asking the delicate question and being open about it. I did not have the exact issues you are dealing with but for most of my life i had a hyperactive sex drive and many of things that went with it, porn, needing sex daily of some sort etc. I would get irritable if i had not had some release etc. My partner and i tried a number of things to alleviate that. Perhaps your physical sensations are a manifestation of your drive.

What did it for me was HRT and transitioning. My sex drive dropped to zero very quickly and then began a slow return to where i feel it is healthy and very "female", for lack of a better term.

A therapist would help you figure that out in more detail and of course deal your gender issues.