Hi, everyone. I'm Katie, and for those that know me, you may remember my situation as a trans woman. I am blessed to at least have been able to start a transition, and come out to many people. But, as some of you know, my brother's wedding was the big event that I had to hold off on until. I promised my mom, who would not take any other answer, that I'd disguise myself, present male, and not speak of it to her family until the wedding was over. Well, the wedding was yesterday, and now my hold is over. I plan on coming out truly, and 100% from now on, and I am so excited about it.
The only thing I wonder is how I even go about this now. I want to take it sort of slow, but also make it apparent that I mean business now. I am going to shortly be telling my mom's entire family, who I do not expect a good response from, and then start to go out with friends dressed up more, but what else? My father, unfortunately, would not be happy if I started going full feminine around the house. Heck, I'm not even allowed to go on hormones or anything until I have graduated, and have a firm job for at least a year, because according to him no one will ever hire me if I am trans, and then my student loans will pile up, fall on him, and we will lose our house. Of course... I've been on hormones for 10 months almost, and what he does not know won't hurt him... But that situation is extremely stressful. It's weird... I've been anticipating this day forever, but now I am like a deer in the headlights. XD
