Thank you Debra. Your essay is perfectly spot on!
I just saw the movie last night and was fore armed about the LGBTQ undercurrent. I found the movie intensely dark, beautiful, evocative of so many LGBTQ lives and the sad self loathing I too experienced. I wept during many scenes and laughed at others. I could also relate to the character Credence, who is befriended by an older man who uses him and expect too many of us may have had early queer experiences this may suggest. The shame and self loathing turning to horrible and terrifying anger was also a palpable and introspective bit.
I highly recommend your essay first and feel the movie can be better understood that way.
I asked a Hetro couple I know as they emerged from the movie if they got any sense of the LGBTQ theme and they looked at me as if I had hit them with a rock. Oh heck NO, we don't think like that

Just wow!