Oh, goddess, yes! With proper ID I can safely travel, and soon I'll have all my accounts and cards in my proper name. This is such a relief, not having to out myself on simple transactions, and knowing I can travel as myself.
This may have been the best week of my transition so far.
A number of folks at the UU church knew I had the court date on Friday, and had asked me to let them know the results. The whole congregation there has been amazingly supportive. Oh, and if you haven't noticed by now, I'm out and an activist. I know I'll never be able to go stealth, so that's not an issue. So, I did a couple of things.
During each Sunday service there is a "Sharing of Joys and Sorrows", from a book we can write in before the service. Often we hear about deaths of members, or folks moving away. We hear about births, and marriages, and all manner of life events. I thought my legal validation might be suitable for celebration, so I wrote in the book:
QuoteOn Friday morning the California Court decreed that I am Michelle Jean P., a 63 year old female person. I exist!
This was read, while I stood in front of the congregation and lit a candle.
Remember that scene at the end of Star Wars where the Princess hands out the medals? Yeah. Like that. I turned toward the congregation, and they were standing and applauding. I was grinning ear to ear. I wish I could have bottled all that affirmation for any bad days ahead, but at least I'll have the memory.
Oh, and after the service, I signed The Book, the book of membership. This is the sort of club I want to join. That means I get to vote on policy and plans, and will also be giving them money. (No change, I've been doing that.)
I'd say I had a pretty positive day.
Tomorrow I've got another electrolysis session, and after that I am heading over to my mother-in-laws. This one will be interesting. My youngest daughter, who lives with my ex-wife will be there to meet me for the first time.
Unfortunately, I can see a certain influence. I've gotten a text informing me that there will be no touching or hugging. Presumably we'll wave to each other.
We'll see how it goes.
A new Community Circle discussion group (A UUC thing) starts up on Tuesday morning, and I'll jump into that. More social connection opportunities!
Thursday a group of us may be getting together for lunch and to see "Hidden Figures", something on my list of movies I want to see.
Friday I've got my
Physics and Antennas lecture I'm presenting, probably to 60-70 people.
I guess I'm having a real life now.
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